Archive for May 19th, 2008
National Day Of Appreciation For The Human Spirit

Quote of the month: “When you celebrate the human spirit, you heal and enrich your own spirit.” - Geela

The other day I purchased a reference book that lists hundreds of calendar of events and special dates such as holidays. To my surprise, I discovered that while there was a special day for practically everything under the sun, there was nothing about celebrating the human spirit, which is supposed to be so central to our existence. I wondered if that was due to a narrow focus on one sliver of our lives and therefore the inability to see the big picture of life itself, or was it symptomatic of something much deeper. For some people, it’s too overwhelming to think beyond the “one day at a time” mentality - which reminds me of a bumper sticker I once saw which read: “Did you know that one nuclear bomb could ruin your whole day?”

In a time where chaos is the order of the day and insanity is the rule rather than the exception, designating a special National Day of Appreciation For The Human Spirit can actually be highly beneficial and a welcome relief for everyone, and not so much out of a sense of sentimentality, but rather out of necessity. It’s a fact that a free and thriving society is dependent on co-existence, cooperation, acceptance of differences and a solid spiritual foundation. Therefore, promoting positive concepts such as social awareness, a culture of peace and harmony, honoring of all living things, integrity and a wholesome values system, should not be viewed as a luxury but rather as a necessity.

In a fast-paced society that’s driven by a mentality of “more is better,” extreme stress and lack of fulfillment are inevitable. It’s the effect caused by the pursuit of materialism, which is the by-product of the American Dream, which is perpetuated by the media and business advertisers that try to convince us that we must have a certain life style in order to be happy and fulfilled. In the process of pursuing more stuff, we knowingly, or unknowingly, lose that part of our being that is able to experience real joy and fulfillment. Sure, we have more “toys,” but they only produce artificial joy. We’ve all heard the expression “you can’t take it with you,” so what good does it do when there is less and less free time to do what’s really important in life, like connecting with family and friends and making a meaningful difference in people’s lives. Sooner or later it becomes evident that no amount of money or trophies can fill the void created by a malnourished spirit.

The real danger becomes even more obvious when extreme (and continual) stress collides with a lack of a solid spiritual foundation. We then experience a sense of loss in practically every facet of our lives; from loss of clarity and productivity to a lack of security and direction. But most importantly, we experience diminished joy of life, sense of fulfillment and family harmony.

There is another good reason for creating a National Day of Appreciation For The Human Spirit. It would help us gain perspective and reflect on what’s really important in life and on our true identity, which is beyond all artificial boundaries such as religion, race and color. These things function as divisive, rather then uniting forces that ultimately lead to hostility and wars both on the individual and global scale. Instead, on such a day the focus would become to celebrate the human spirit, and excellence in its truest form which is characterized by kindness, acceptance of differences (by recognizing that peace is not so much unity in similarity but rather unity in diversity), and the honoring of all living things.

On that particular day, everyone’s focus would be on accomplishing the most outstanding humanitarian work that could contribute to a positive future for all. Efforts of people with high vision and courage, who can offer innovative solutions to the growing problems of our society, would be supported by influential people and the media, who would be providing them with the proper platform to share their ideas in order to accelerate the process by which change can be affected. For one day even the media would exhibit altruistic actions by doing what’s best for the community and ignore their ratings, with TV shows and programming that celebrate human excellence while promoting positive concepts that contribute to a positive future. The result would be to restore balance, a sense of well-being, a sense of community and a real sense of security. Now that’s real “fair and balanced news.”

Imagine coming together just for one day to recognize and celebrate both the human spirit and human excellence, with a sense of genuine acceptance for our differences. Suddenly we would discover and appreciate the simple pleasures of life, such as making new friendships. But the benefits wouldn’t end there since it’s a fact that true prosperity (from health to wealth) is a by-product of living in harmony with universal laws. Perhaps then we could also see less senseless violence in our schools and on our streets. Perhaps then our kids would once again gain a sense of direction and hope in an increasingly violent and the competitive world. Perhaps then we’d see leaders in government and business who exhibit the power of love (rather than the love of power), doing what’s in the best interest of the community rather then what’s politically correct.

Celebrating a National Day of Appreciation For The Human Spirit would also help restore balance in our hectic lives by simplifying things and reexamining our obsession with “more is better.” It would also inspire us to reconnect with our spiritual roots and nurture our malnourished spirits by recognizing that as spiritual beings experiencing the human experience (and not the other way around), we can’t really experience a life of meaning with purpose and real joy and fulfillment without the element of giving (making a meaningful difference in people’s lives). Perhaps having such a day would stimulate a shift in the American culture from “He with the most toys lives” to “He with the most joy lives” making it possible for everyone to achieve the American Dream, in its truest form, which is based on perspiration, innovation, risk and reward - where the focus would be on a wholesome values system, strong work ethic, integrity and community.

However, for a goal to be achieved it has to be tangible and real enough, otherwise it functions like a picture on the wall (it’s nice but not attainable). Car dealers, for instance, encourage potential customers to take a test drive for that very reason, because it works. Likewise, for positive concepts to stimulate transformation, it must first feel “real” and be experienced at least on some level, particularly for many who have never experienced those concepts and falsely believe that they are unattainable. That’s why celebrating a National Day of Appreciation For Human Spirit can provide a golden opportunity for the mind to be stretched to a new dimension, and as such the mind can never go back to its original state.

But why wait for some artificial date to motivate you to do the right thing anyway? As long as you let your conscious guide you, you know you can never go wrong. So go ahead and be the change you wish to see in the world today and, who knows, perhaps through inner change we can finally experience an outer change as well. Now that’s good news for the heart too.

About the author:

Copyright © 2004-2005, Geela
Author of “The American Dream”
http://www.Geela.com

Geela is an award winning singer/songwriter/composer, columnist, and author of the best-selling book “THE AMERICAN DREAM,” her true- life story of how she came to America as a young immigrant with nothing and overcame incredible obstacles to achieve mega-success. She founded ONE SPIRIT, ONE WORLD to help children and promote a culture of peace and harmony. Get a free sample of her music and her book at http://www.Geela.com

What is the Value of a Paralegal Degree?

Many people who choose to get degrees as paralegals may be wondering how much they are worth in the job market.

A paralegal with a Bachelor’s degree can earn as much as $60,000/year if working in a large urban area or for the federal government. This is an income well above the national average.

The largest employers of paralegals tend to be private law firms. Paralegals, however, are being hired in places like banks, corporations, insurance companies, and real estate firms. Because there is an increase in these type places hiring paralegals, the employment opportunities are increasing for paralegals.

Those paralegals that choose areas like bankruptcy and product liability for their specialty will have a large number of employment opportunities. The demand for paralegals will continue to increase as large agencies and corporations depend on paralegals with greater and more important responsibilities. The paralegal profession is unwavering and only increases in demand now that corporations and agencies want paralegals working inhouse and don’t want to need to bring them in.

As we have mentioned, the demand for paralegals has been predicted to grow, both in the public and private sectors. Earning your online certificate program to become a paralegal is not only worth all your time, but it will also prove to be a great and large investment for your future. Growth is expected in this field over the next ten years, as a wider variety of businesses will hire paralegals. Also, the chance of being outsourced is small in this profession and it is not badly affected by economic downturns.

Bachelor Party Ideas

The following paragraphs summarize the work of wedding experts
who are completely familiar with all the aspects of weddings.
Heed their advice to avoid any wedding surprises.

The tradition of the bachelor party may date as far back as the
1800s. The stereotype of a bachelor party is a last night of
debauchery for the groom and his friends before the wedding but
in more recent times soon to be grooms are looking to less
traditional activities to mark their final days as bachelors.
While there are still would be grooms, who opt to spend the last
hours before their wedding partying with alcohol and female
exotic dancers, many men are choosing a less traditional route
such as camping trips, sporting events, daredevil activities and
even co-ed bachelor parties that include the soon to be bride
and her friends. These types of activities are much less likely
to get the groom in trouble with his bride not to mention that
they won’t leave the groom feeling too sick to even remember his
wedding day.

Camping is one alternative to the traditional bachelor party.
You may choose to either rough it by backpacking to a location
with only the gear on your back to help you survive the elements
for a few days or you could choose to drive to a spa facility
that offers well appointed cabins and five star gourmet meals.
Whichever option you choose, you are bound to have a great deal
of time relaxing and enjoying the company of the rest of the
participants in your bachelor party. A camping trip offers the
groom a quiet atmosphere to reflect with his friends on the
journey he is about to take.

Sporting events are another great alternative to the usual
bachelor party ideas. You may find that married life does not
offer you as much free time to spend with your friends as you
used to have so take this chance to enjoy a little bit of fun
with your friends. Whether you choose to partake in a sport of
your choice or purchase tickets to see your favorite
professional athletes it is sure to be a great opportunity to
bond with your male friends in the last few days before your
wedding. It is wise to try choosing a sport that all of your
guests will be able to participate in especially if you plan to
include very young or very old guests. In this situation playing
a game of football may not be the best idea but taking everyone
to play a round of golf might be an activity that all of the
guest can enjoy.

It’s really a good idea to probe a little deeper into the
subject of weddings. What you learn may give you the confidence
you need to venture into new areas.

Still another activity that translates well into a bachelor
party idea is getting a group of friends together to try an
adrenaline pumping, activity geared for thrill seekers such as
sky diving or white water rafting. The exhilaration gained from
these activities coupled with the fear factor makes them a
perfect activity for bonding with your friends. These daredevil
activities will cause you and your friends to bond during the
excitement leading up to the event as well as the thrill of
accomplishing a new activity. While these types of activities
are great for male bonding, it is important to remember that
they are risky activities and there is the danger that you might
be hurt during these activities. If this is your bachelor party
idea of choice you might want to consider holding your bachelor
party well in advance of your wedding to avoid last minute
injuries that delay the wedding.

Co-ed bachelor parties that coincide with the bachelorette party
are becoming increasingly popular as well. One common practice
involving these adjunct parties is to have the bachelors and
bachelorettes meet at separate restaurants for dinner and then
join each other at a nightclub to cap off the night with some
dancing and a few drinks. These types of parties can be a great
deal of fun because they allow both the bride and the groom some
time apart to spend time with their friends and then they
reunite the couple at the end of the night in a chance for them
to spend time with all of their friends without the pomp and
circumstance that is likely to accompany their wedding
reception.

The debauchery of stereotypical bachelor parties is not the only
way to enjoy a fun-filled bachelor party that gives you the
opportunity to bond with your friends. Camping trips, sporting
activities, extreme adventures and even co-ed bachelor parties
are redefining the traditional bachelor party. These bachelor
party ideas not only serve to keep the groom out of trouble but
also offer the opportunity to enjoy a new adventure. Hopefully
the sections above have contributed to your understanding of
weddings. Share your new understanding about weddings with
others. They’ll thank you for it.

How to Make Good Use of Your Web Conference Session

Preperation is vital when conducting a successful videoconference session. Thus there are a number of steps to remember prior to the videoconference session itself:

Always test the equipment before hand.

The WebVideo4U software is extremely reliable but it always pays to test the software prior to the videoconference itself. There may be problems with the Internet connection, the webcam or the microphone. Better to find out in time to rectify the problem than have embarrassing delays during the videoconference itself.

Double Check Timezones

The beauty of global communication also comes with the pitfall of negotiating the different timezones. Always check the timezones, double check them and confirm with both parties to ensure that there are no embarrassing hickups.

There are also several important steps to take when setting things up at your end to ensure that the videoconference runs smoothly.

Camera Angles

It seems an obvious thing but it doesn’t look very professional if your fellow videoconference attendees can only see the top of your head or your neck. Make sure you’ve got the camera set up so that your head is fully in shot and try and leave about 10% headroom.

Microphones

Test your microphone prior to the conference. Jimi Hendrix may have been able to use feedback effectively, it’s more likely to deafen your colleagues however and won’t get the conference off to a good start. If you do get feedback play around with the positioning of your speakers and microphone until you find the optimum position.

Clothing

Your company may be relaxed regarding clothing but try and remember the camera. Bright colours and patterned clothing don’t help the transmission. Instead try and opt for colours such as blue or grey.

Lighting

Consider the effects of lighting on the camera. Up lighting is generally considered best and should be in front of the participants. Also beware of windows in the camera shot. If windows are in shot try and use curtains or blinds to prevent the glare ruining the shot.

Adi Gaskell is the founder of http://www.WebVideo4U.co.uk, a leading developer of Flash based streaming video solutions.